>I got denied HRT in Netherlands

It requires more investigation before assigning the entirety or even part of the blame to the transgender movement, which is international. You don't know Dutch, so you don't even know what the laws are, the precedents etc etc. Such rejection could simply be illegal, a result of collusion between insurers and doctors, could be discrimination of immigrants(who came to drain resources here on their surgeries, let's be real), could be discrimination of you personally, which is highly likely, considering how abrasive you are.

There is a moral hazard -- if you pay for surgeries for LGBT asylum immigrants, do it more than someone else, than there will be financially burdensome influx of such immigrants. It isn't a simple issue.

>local LGBT faggots told me multiple times that dicks can be "feminine"

This doesn't necessarily have anything to do with denial of care for those who want this care. I see no contradiction with "dicks can be feminine" and "some want vaginas anyway".