Настроение:	contemplative
Entry tags:	transitioning

TS vs gay
Why do people confuse transsexual girls with gays? Isn't it obvious that grim depresed people who believe in improvement through vivisection are the opposite of being a joyful gayclub chemsex enjoyer? Isn't obvious that love for some dirty anal sex wont push a person to get a vagina and cut off penis, sometimes by using a circular saw at home?

Is it because of the small minority of gay men who transition or crossdress to express their gayness or attract heterosexual males, while having no body dysphoria?

In fact even the gay men themselves sometimes believe that trans girls are just confused gay boys or some lv.99 gays who think too much of themselves, although gays get quickly disillusioned upon meeting actual trans.

That all isn't helped by all the politically motivated lefty body-positive fat queers start calling themselves "trans," and then get angry when actual trans girl spends $90,000 on her feminization surgeries, instead of donating to some BLM foundation or other stereotypical SJW cause.

One can kinda understand the government officials, who need men to patch say army draft holes by conscripting everyone, even if conscripting a mentally unstable hysterical feminine person is a straight road to lose more personnel in combat (not something corrupt 3rd world officers with quotas care about).

Many trans women don't explicitly identify as women or think as themselves as ones or even aware of their dysphoria, but there is a trail of troubles in their wake, since they just don't behave as expected of men. For example, if a trans woman got married due to social pressure, instead feeling love towards her female spouse, she feels jealousy and sees the spouse's children as not her own, since she isn't the one who gave birth and not the mother. And she can bear this hatred for years, supporting the woman, and then snap hysterically, harming her formal spouse and children without any externally obvious reason or provocation. Because one day she had a final straw remembering when she was a little boy, her dad always favored her beautiful sister, while she was expected to man up.

Same happens when a trans woman gets conscripted into army. She doesn't develop what is called soldier comradeship, and could use her comrades as live shield to save her life, instead of covering them, or she can just get hysterical under pressure and open fire randomly at brothers in arms to make herself heard.

From the outside that will look totally uncalled for and totally inexplicable.

So neither men nor women really want to misdiagnose or confuse trans women for men, since it can cost them resources and lives.

Yet politicians for some reason concentrate on trans women in sports, when in reality most trans girls don't care about competitive sports at all. Competing is something men genetically predisposed to do to flexing before potential female dates. If this genetic mechanism are broken or underdeveloped, then a person will participate in the competition only under social pressure (boy like you are obliged to play on the team), and then everyone get angry when said person gets hysterical and throws a tantrum during a match.