Question:

Dear CAKE,

        I have troubles. You are my favorite band. This much can be taken for granted. You leave me in quite a predicament, however. I intend to get my first (and perhaps only) tattoo as something symbolizing your band. This is because I want to always remember your music and the meaning behind may of your songs as I trudge through life- particularly "Short Skirt, Long Jacket," a song that describes a woman I strive to be. So, what do you recommend I have tattooed on myself? It has to be small to fit on my wrist. Thanks!

        Sincerely,

            Kathryn

Answer:

Dear Kathryn,

        Your statements are truly flattering. Thanks! What you might try regarding the tattoo is break the impulsive need for the deep moment and permanent souvenir. Stretch your motivation to tattoo over the course of several months. Use a good ball point pen (a blue or black bic) or felt tip marker, or both, to draw on your wrist whenever you want. If you don't feel like drawing have someone else do it. Knock yourself out! This isn't an anti-tattoo stance necessarily, however, it seems the middleground is often overlooked in the process of yearning for completion.

        Good Luck,

            CAKE