суточные щи -

The most common form of domination is an expression of sympathy and even empathy to the oppressed, downtrodden, victimised ones, coming from the dominant individuals. . Often, it comes with some form of financial support, with the dominant ones forming a charity institution. This form of domination is vicious and makes the victimhood position more or less permanent because every attempt to straighten up and live an ordinary, honest life would be met with disappointment. As the dominant one is losing a subordinate, his or more often - her - disapproval comes wrapped in sympathy/empathy bribe and a charitable donation, masking the impulse of power coming from up the social ladder. Please stay down so I can stay up.
This is not as easy to deflect as an honest, masculine hook to the jaw or kick in the gut.