Translated
Absolutely not. I know very few people from my friends-list in real life and I don't care who reads my lj. It's open to everyone and I have no problem keeping private things to myself.
What it is - I'm pretending to be concerned with my "friends-of" well being, my post says:
"Please take me off you friends-list. My posts are way too long. lj-cut represents a problem for those who want to read them (loading time too long for people w/o fast connection). Reading friends-list is not good in general. I read my favorite live-journals directly, each one is kind of a piece of art in undefined genre, while friends-list mode is a poor collage.
I add those who impressed me within lj. I consider it ridiculous to remove friends from the list because of difference of opinions - friends-list should be colorful. Vote for diversity (slogan of local gay-lesbian). No, I won't be friends in real life with all those from my list. And visa versa, I'm friends with some who has lj-account but doesn't post - but I won't add them to my friends-list.

I don't expect people to add me 'cause I added them - add me 'cause I post fabulous recipes. Of rather take off the list".