I went to pick him up, had to bring our daughter and he was very sheepish when he left the station. He sat in the car and it was trickle truth for sure. At first he told me he'd been arrested because he had gone on a porn site, child porn popped up, he closed it instantly but his IP address meant they came after him. Then he admitted he'd downloaded a TOR(?) Search engine to get hardcore porn on the deep web. Then he said that he'd looked at a child porn page out of "curiosity" but didn't click on anything. I knew this wasn't the full truth and I freaked out. I told him he can't stay in my house with our daughter until this was sorted.