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Пишет Journal de Chaource (![[info]](http://lj.rossia.org/img/syndicated.gif){kind=small} lj_chaource)@ 2020-04-17 07:24:00 |
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Der bewunderungswerte Dr. Michael Winterhoff
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvXSuv9D
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8OrgS3l
(in German)
Summary: if you aren't authoritative towards your children, you never let them grow up. The "snowflake generation" is due to not having authoritative adults around. The only way to teach is the age-old "show and tell, drill and test". Teach the children what is good and what is bad, what is right and wrong. Give the children rituals and demand obedience. No smartphones until 14 years hold. No TV until 5-6 years old, and only together with parents.
For today's adults overwhelmed with information and uncertainty: go walk slowly 4 or 5 hours alone in a forest without smartphone, or sit half an hour quietly alone in a church. He claims that 5 hours later, the psyche recovers.
He never mentions hypercomfort, but in my view the un-authoritative upbringing could become the norm only in a society without dangers.
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Michael Winterhoff gilt als der "Thilo Sarrazin" der Erziehungstherapie, da er "Deutschland verdummt" und andere Bücher geschrieben hat.
Zwei Therapien: 5 Stunden Waldspaziergang ohne Handy, oder jeden Tag eine halbe Stunde in einer Kirche sitzen.
Also, einfach einige Stunden alleine bleiben ist heute eine Therapie!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvXSuv9D
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8OrgS3l
(in German)
Summary: if you aren't authoritative towards your children, you never let them grow up. The "snowflake generation" is due to not having authoritative adults around. The only way to teach is the age-old "show and tell, drill and test". Teach the children what is good and what is bad, what is right and wrong. Give the children rituals and demand obedience. No smartphones until 14 years hold. No TV until 5-6 years old, and only together with parents.
For today's adults overwhelmed with information and uncertainty: go walk slowly 4 or 5 hours alone in a forest without smartphone, or sit half an hour quietly alone in a church. He claims that 5 hours later, the psyche recovers.
He never mentions hypercomfort, but in my view the un-authoritative upbringing could become the norm only in a society without dangers.
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Michael Winterhoff gilt als der "Thilo Sarrazin" der Erziehungstherapie, da er "Deutschland verdummt" und andere Bücher geschrieben hat.
Zwei Therapien: 5 Stunden Waldspaziergang ohne Handy, oder jeden Tag eine halbe Stunde in einer Kirche sitzen.
Also, einfach einige Stunden alleine bleiben ist heute eine Therapie!
