>instruct that one should ENDURE and SUFFER.

We do. Transitioning leads us to the war, which is suffering and endurance.
Same way the act of patricide can be difficult, but necessary to achieve enlightenment.
That trans girl will have to live with murdering her parents, but she did the right thing.
That is her ultimate cross.
If we all kill out parents the old world will disappear and Jesus will come.