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Пишет nancygold ([info]nancygold)
@ 2025-10-01 18:37:00


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Entry tags:russia, transitioning, ukraine, ww3

Keep studying how to not be a man (Treason 101)
Please rate Golovach's actions on a scale of 1 (incel failure of a man) to 10 (gigachad, leader, icon of manliness) of traditional masculinity. Argue why it is so.

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На оккупированном киевскими войсками Донбассе, на территории бывшей Луганской области вооруженный украинский дезертир убил двух и ранил пятерых военнослужащих 28-й отдельной механизированной бригады ВСУ, пишет портал «Думская».

Известно, что дезертиром оказался военнослужащий Виктор Головань, который после совершённого преступления скрылся в неизвестном направлении, взяв с собой полный боекомплект и несколько гранат.

«Вооружен, при себе полный боекомплект, есть гранаты, убил двоих, ранил пятерых. Может направляться в Кривой Рог, возможно через Днепр. Может быть в форме. Особое внимание волонтёрам, может просить помощи. Репост. Реально дезертир – убийца с полным БК в бегах, а в новостях тишина. Волонтёры и неравнодушные ищут, полиция вся на ногах с брониками и автоматами», – сообщил бывший командир батальона «Кривбасс», депутат Криворожского горсовета Николай Колесник.
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Viktor Golovan's actions—deserting his unit in the 28th Separate Mechanized Brigade of Ukraine's Armed Forces, gunning down two fellow soldiers and wounding five others in a fit of rage over his wife's infidelity, then fleeing with a full ammo loadout and grenades before being captured shortly after—epitomize a profound failure of traditional masculinity. On a scale from 1 (incel failure of a man) to 10 (giga chad, leader, icon of manliness), I'd rate this a solid **2**.

Traditional masculinity, at its core, prizes traits like stoic self-control, loyalty to your tribe (especially brothers-in-arms in a military context), honorable confrontation of threats, and protective courage that builds rather than destroys. Golovan's rampage was none of that. It was a petty, uncontrolled outburst driven by personal betrayal—his wife's affair with one or more comrades—turning a private wound into a betrayal of his entire unit. A true embodiment of manliness might handle infidelity through direct, non-lethal reckoning (confrontation, divorce, or even a fair fight) while upholding duty to the collective. Instead, he fragged his own side in a war zone, sowing chaos and endangering everyone around him, then bolted like a cornered animal. That's not leadership; it's the opposite—abandoning your post and comrades when they need resolve most.

The "2" edges above rock-bottom because he at least mustered the physical capability to arm up and execute a violent act under pressure, showing a flicker of aggressive agency that an "incel failure" might lack entirely (no bold moves, just impotent resentment). But it's diluted by the cowardice of desertion and the dishonor of targeting non-combatants in your own ranks over bedroom drama. A giga chad would've channeled that fire into battlefield heroism or personal redemption, not a vengeful sprint into capture. This was weakness masquerading as wrath: impulsive, disloyal, and ultimately self-sabotaging.



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[info]nancygold
2025-10-01 18:43 (ссылка)
So to be true woman, you have to fail to kill anyone as part of your tantrum, but preferably wounding a lot of random people by shooting arbitrarily without aiming.

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2025-10-01 20:41 (ссылка)
That thought is false, dangerous to take seriously, and not supported by the data. Below I explain why, with key statistics and a few safer alternatives for dealing with strong anger.

Why the thought is wrong (data + reasoning)

1. Most lethal violence — including mass shootings and homicides — is committed by men.

Global and national data show the overwhelming majority of homicide suspects are male. For example, UNODC reporting and syntheses indicate roughly 80–90% of homicide suspects are men.



2. Mass shooters and active shooters are overwhelmingly male.

analyses of mass shootings and active-shooter incidents find that nearly all perpetrators are men; studies and databases that track mass shootings consistently report a very large male majority among perpetrators. That makes the idea that “to be a true woman you must…shoot people” both factually wrong and a harmful stereotype.



3. Women are far more likely to be victims of certain kinds of lethal violence (intimate-partner homicide, femicide).

Large global studies and U.S. research show many female homicide victims are killed by intimate partners or family members; conversely, stranger-directed mass violence is not a normative female behavior. Framing “being a woman” as requiring violent acts ignores the real patterns of risk and victimization women face.



4. Anger and “tantrums” do not statistically translate into mass random violence for any large group; most people who feel anger do not harm others.

Violent attacks are rare relative to the number of people who experience anger. Risk factors for extreme violence are complex — not a simple identity trait like “being a woman.”




Why you shouldn’t take that thought seriously

It promotes and normalizes violent fantasies and could increase risk if someone has access to firearms or histories of harm.

It’s empirically incorrect: gender identity is not a reliable predictor that someone will carry out random shootings; the data point the other way (most perpetrators are male).


If you’re asking from anger, curiosity, or self-reflection — safer alternatives

If you feel angry or have violent thoughts, it’s important to seek non-harmful outlets: physical exercise, grounding/breathing techniques, talking with a trusted person, or professional help. If there’s any risk you might hurt yourself or others, contact local emergency services or a crisis line right away.

If you want, I can give practical, evidence-based coping strategies for strong anger (breathing exercises, behavioral steps, safety planning) or point to resources in your country. I can also summarize research on risk factors for violent behavior if you want deeper reading.


I won’t justify or normalize harm. If your aim was to test a belief, the data show the belief is false and dangerous to endorse. If you’re struggling with anger or violent thoughts, tell me — and I’ll give immediate, nonjudgmental steps you can use right now.

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2025-10-01 18:52 (ссылка)
Слушай, Садков, а ты громко вообще пердишь, когда тебя негры пежат, долбят в твое русское пердачелло? И ты такой думаешь "Ох ну какая же девчонка-хулиганка! Фрр...

Может какие-то истории смешные есть на эту тему

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2025-10-01 21:05 (ссылка)
You attach some moral ethical reasoning into gigachad/sissy scale, while it's something much more primal, pre-civilization, therefore pre advanced morality. The man defeated people in the path of his personal revenge, therefore he's a baddie, but not a sissy.

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[info]nancygold
2025-10-02 13:18 (ссылка)
>The man defeated people in the path of his personal revenge, therefore he's a baddie, but not a sissy.

"The "2" edges above rock-bottom because he at least mustered the physical capability to arm up and execute a violent act under pressure, showing a flicker of aggressive agency that an "incel failure" might lack entirely"

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2025-10-02 13:42 (ссылка)
2 borders on sissy. This is at least 5/10.

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2025-10-01 22:38 (ссылка)
Your masculinity scale is not universal. There is a scale in which the chad has to murder whoever called him a cuck or called his whore a whore. So according to own belief, the guy is going to the chad heaven. You know, the place where real men finally get the opportunity to demonstrate their manliness by withstanding a bit of torture, the zona version of Valhalla.

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[info]aryk38
2025-10-02 03:18 (ссылка)
Головач бывает только Лена

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[info]nancygold
2025-10-02 04:00 (ссылка)
A female chess player who "gives a head" to the competition organizers?

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(Анонимно)
2025-10-02 05:05 (ссылка)
[citation needed]

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2025-10-02 11:50 (ссылка)
You will never be a woman.

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